For the uninitiated, I’ve assembled a non-exhaustive list of things that co-exist with [socially defined] whites’ collective political, social and/or economic dominance in countries with histories of white supremacy, anti-blackness and racialized terror against people socially defined as non-white:
1. The fact that many whites are wonderful and kind people.
2. The fact that some white people do nice things for some people of color.
3. The fact that white poverty exists [and enriches the white 1%].
4. The fact that some white people are allies.
5. The fact that some white people have sex with people of color.
6. The fact that some (evidently smaller number than those referenced in #5) white people build loving, romantic relationships and families with some people of color.
7. The fact that whites personally and individually experience struggle or disadvantage.
8. The fact that many, many, many whites treat other whites poorly.
9. The fact that after voting for 43 white presidents in a row, some whites voted for and elected a half-white President.
10. The fact that there are people of color who are in denial about the existence and illegitimacy of white supremacy due to internalized oppression.
11. The fact that there are white people who are in denial about the existence and/or illegitimacy of white supremacy due to the psychic and material rewards of white supremacy.
12. The fact that “not all whites” [insert oppressive verb here].
13. The fact that a white police officer hugged a crying black child.
14. The fact that Oprah exists.
15. The fact that people are seduced by narratives of hope and progress even in the midst of on-going oppression.
16. The fact that certain elite social spaces that were previously 100% white are now “only” (!!!) 99% 95% or 90% of 85% or 75% white.
17. The fact that whiteness, specifically, and race generally are social constructs and therefore neither primordial nor essential.
18. The Emancipation Proclamation.
19. Affirmative Action.
20. Black millionaires and billionaires.
21. Beer summits.
22. White House meetings with Ferguson protesters.
23. Cameras on cops.
24. OWN.
25. Eric Holder.
It should really go without saying, but none of the aforementioned is capable of negating white supremacy.. in the same way that the existence of really awesome heterosexual people does not negate the social and historical reality of heterosexism, in the same way that Ellen’s individual success does not negate the on-going realities of homophobia, in the same way that the existence of women CEOs does not negate the social reality of unequal pay, in the same way the existence of generous, compassionate and kind-hearted men does not negate the social and historical reality of patriarchy, in the same way that the existence of loving and compassionate cis people does not negate the social and historical reality of cis-sexism and transphobia, in the same way that the existence of inter-ethnic friendships and relationships does not wash away the legacies of ethnocentrism and privilege on the part of the dominant group(s), in the same way that the “philanthropy” of the 1% does not erase the horrid realities of capitalist exploitation..
And so on, and so forth.
Aware of Awareness 
This white/black, rich/poor, ugly/pretty, weak/strong, etc, need to be matured. We have to understand that while the ego is being lived all opposites are bound to emerge. Once they have been experienced, they’ll drop on their own. We need more time to overcome race. We are still in our teens.